Me first?

WE as women are trained to take care of others first before ourselves. But like the airplane oxygen mask rule we need to take care of ourselves first to be able to take care of others. We need to be happy and whole to be better women. So think what is the one thing you would do for yourself, if you had the money?

I ask you this because no matter what you do in life you need goals. A new house, a new car, a cruise to get away from the kiddos with your honey. These are all great goals and not the least bit selfish.

If someone told you to be better parents you needed to spend time with your spouse you wouldn't think twice. So I say to be a better wife, mother, woman you need to do something to pamper yourself.

One of the questions we use to ask when we enrolled people into Avon was if you had 1,000 what would you do for yourself. We see women want something for their kids their spouses and their family. It was very rare to see things like a spa visit, shopping spree or anything else. More often you would see College fund for the kids, a new house or anything else that was for everyone but themselves.

So what are YOUR goals in life?